Leading Without Burnout: A Mother Redefining Success

Tell us about your family. How Many Kids?

I’m a mum to my daughter and have also been a stepmum to five now-adult children — so yes, six kids all up. It’s been a big, blended, beautifully chaotic life.

My daughter is a teenager now, and becoming her mum has been one of the most transformative experiences of my life.

What’s the part of being a mum that fills you up the most?

Watching my daughter step into her power. Whether she’s speaking her truth, creating something she’s proud of, or showing kindness without being asked — those moments remind me that she’s always watching, always learning. That fills me with so much pride.

What’s one thing that genuinely helps you stay afloat in the day-to-day juggle?

How do you carve out space for career, motherhood, love, friends, and still find a moment for you?

Not always gracefully! But I rely on rituals that anchor me:

early nights, strong boundaries, weekly massages (non-negotiable), and a daughter who keeps me accountable when it’s time to log off and be present.

I also batch my workdays to protect my energy and my space.

Where do you find fashion that genuinely feels like you?

I love easy, elevated pieces that feel effortless. Kivari, Witchery and Viktoria & Woods are my go-to brands. If I can throw something on and feel put together without fuss, I’m happy. When the occasion calls for something special, I love Aje and Alemais — that’s where I get to have a bit of fun.

What does living a healthy, grounded life look like to you?

Simplicity. Rhythms. Nourishing whole foods. Morning rituals. Saying no more than I say yes. And reminding myself daily that I get to build this life — I’m not a victim to it.

How do you keep your body moving in a way that feels realistic right now?

Daily walks are my non-negotiable. I love Pilates and strength training at the gym, but they don’t fit into my life at the moment.

Right now, my priorities are walking, meditation and yin relaxation to support my nervous system.

When life settles, I’ll happily return to Pilates and strength sessions.

What’s one non-negotiable that keeps your mind and body well?

Massage. Every single week. No phone, just space. It’s where my nervous system resets — and honestly, where some of my biggest ideas land.

When you think of ‘balance’, what does that actually mean to you in real life? 

Balance is seasonal. Some weeks are full-tilt with SHE-com launches and events, and others are softer and more family-focused. I naturally run at full speed, so balance for me means intentionally slowing down — because I know burnout will catch me if I don’t.

What does your morning routine look like, honestly?

My nervous system wakes me sometime between 3am and 5am every day. I’m on the beach with my dogs by 5:30am. I always stop for a coffee on the way home.

It’s my favourite part of the day — being awake while the world is quiet feels delicious.

How do you wind down at night? 

Early dinner, then phone away and cuddles with my daughter while we watch a movie — usually a rom-com. I love something joyful that doesn’t require my brain to be “on.” By 8pm, I’m in bed reading on my Kindle before sleep.

What’s something about you that would genuinely surprise people?

That I’ve had a gastric sleeve. It was a turning point in my health journey — I’ve lost over 60kg and reclaimed my energy.

What’s a truth about yourself that took you years to finally admit?

That I can’t do it all — and I’m not meant to. Learning to accept support changed everything.

When do you feel most like yourself?

On stage. Or walking the beach at sunrise. Very different experiences — but in both, I’m fully present.

Was there a moment that quietly shifted the direction of your life? 

A massage in Bali — that’s where the name SHE-com came to me. Two hours, no phone, just space. From that moment, a community of over 100,000 women was born.

What’s a mistake you’re now grateful for?

Trying to do too much with SHE-com last year.

We nearly burned out the entire team.

But it forced us to simplify, restructure and come back stronger.

What boundary changed your life the most?

Phone-free time — especially around my daughter. It’s a small act, but it’s transformed how we connect.

What part of yourself do you judge the most?

My constant need for momentum. It’s a gift, but it can cost me presence — and that’s when I feel it most.

What’s something you pretend you pretend not to care about, but secretly do? 

Being liked. I want my work and impact to be felt.

What’s something that people would never guess about you?

That I was in a domestic violence relationship. It shaped my resilience and my strength.

If you could live an entirely different life for a year, what would it be?

Hosting a wellness retreat in Bali — sunrise yoga, nourishing food, and deep conversations with women every day.

What’s something that still feels uncomfortable, but you’re doing it anyway?

Letting myself be fully seen on social media — the messy days, the wins, the tears.

What’s a version of yourself are you becoming?

One who scales with ease and leads without burnout.

What do you wish your younger self knew?

That she’s never too late, too much, or too broken.

What’s the hardest part of motherhood to admit out loud?

That sometimes I crave time away — and that doesn’t make me a bad mum. It makes me human.

What’s a small joy getting you through this season?

My daughter’s laugh. Sun on my skin. Grass under my feet. The tiny things are the real gold.

The 5 things in your bag you can’t leave home without:

1. Laneige Lip Oil
2. Airyday SPF 50 Bronze Glow Sunscreen
3. A notebook — for capturing ideas as they arrive
4. Noise-cancelling AirPods — perfect for walking meetings
5. Vanessa Megan Rose Hydrosol Mist

Visit, Buy, Do

Visit: Italy — long lunches and lake swims
Buy: An oceanfront property to host SHE-com retreats
Do: A solo week in silence — no phone, just journaling, yoga and space

What inspired you to start SHE-com?

I was tired of watching women hustle in the dark — low on cash and confused about what actually works.

I knew I had the frameworks and shortcuts, so I built the community I wish I’d had.

What has been the biggest challenge?

Trying to be everything to everyone. We did too much, and it nearly broke us. But it brought clarity — we’re now focused, simplified and stronger.

Have you had moments where you’ve wanted to give up?

Absolutely. When cash was tight, when the team was burnt out, when I was working 80-hour weeks. But I always came back to my why — and found smarter ways forward..

When did you realise SHE-com was going to be a success?

When women started saying, “SHE-com saved my business.” I celebrated with a massage — of course.

How has motherhood changed how you run SHE-com?

I work smarter, not longer. I hire better. I don’t attend every meeting. I protect my energy fiercely. My daughter needs a present mum — not just a successful one.

Can you share what’s coming up for SHE-com?

Our biggest year yet. Global expansion and laying the groundwork for our future exit — all built with intention..

Any advice for someone wanting to start a business?

Start small. Start scrappy. Know your customer like she’s your best friend.

Don’t do everything at once — and back yourself like it’s already done.

To learn more about SHE-com click here.