Tell us about your family. How many Kids?
It’s me, my husband Michael, our 3-year-old son Reeves, and a baby girl on the way.
What was the biggest adjustment for you when you became a mum?
Definitely the identity shift. I don’t think anyone really prepares you for how much of your old self you have to let go of.
I struggled with that a lot at first — trying to hold onto who I was while also stepping into someone completely new.
It takes time to reconcile the two.
What surprised you the most when becoming a mum?
How tired I would be. Like, deeply tired in a way that doesn’t really go away. And also the realisation that uninterrupted sleep just… isn’t part of your life anymore. No one explains that properly.
What is the best thing about being a mum?
Watching Reeves become his own little person. Seeing his personality come through, the things he says, how he sees the world — it’s actually really special. It feels like we’re growing up together in a way.
What’s one thing that genuinely helps you stay afloat in the day-to-day juggle?
My friends and online community, honestly. Just having people to talk to who get it — whether it’s a quick message, a vent, or sharing something funny — it makes everything feel lighter.
How do you carve out space for career, motherhood, love, friendships, and still find a moment for you?
I’ve stopped trying to do it all perfectly.
If I get a pocket of time, I use it for whatever I need most in that moment — sometimes that’s work, sometimes it’s seeing someone, and sometimes it’s just lying down and doing nothing.
I’ve learnt that rest is productive too.
What’s the hardest part of motherhood for you to admit out loud?
That it’s not just one hard thing — it’s a lot of little things all at once. I really struggled with breastfeeding, both physically and mentally, and there’s so much pressure around it. It can feel like everyone has an opinion, especially in mum groups, which makes it harder to trust yourself.
If you could go back and tell yourself one thing before becoming a mum, what would it be?
Lower your expectations. Be kinder to yourself. You don’t have to do everything, and you don’t have to do it perfectly. Most of it you’ll figure out as you go — and that’s enough.
What does your morning routine look like, honestly?
It’s actually pretty calm. Reeves and I usually wake up together and just ease into the day — coffee, breakfast, no rushing. I try to keep mornings slow where I can. It sets the tone for everything else.
How do you wind down at night? What does your evening routine really look like?
Very routine, nothing glamorous. I usually cook dinner — I love cooking, so that’s kind of my switch-off time. Then it’s playing with Reeves, negotiating a bath, a few stories, and eventually getting him into bed. Once he’s asleep, I’ll reset the house a bit and then go to bed myself. It’s simple, but it works.
Who’s in your village (the people you truly couldn’t do this without)?
My husband, first and foremost. And my close friends — the ones I can message at any hour and be completely honest with. Also my online community, which sounds cliché, but they’ve been a huge support in ways I didn’t expect.
The things in your bag you can’t leave home without
I’m honestly not a big bag person. Most days it’s just my phone and hoping for the best. If I do bring one, it’s usually the basics — snacks for Reeves, wipes, and whatever random thing I’ve thrown in last minute.
Where do you find fashion that genuinely feels like you?
I always lean towards comfort. If it’s not easy to wear, I won’t reach for it. I like pieces that feel effortless but still put together — nothing too overthought. When do you feel most like the truest version of you?
Your favourite thing to do to escape?
Exercise, for sure. It’s the one place where I can switch off and just be in my own head for a minute.
why do you love it, and when did you first discover it?
Pilates. I love how it makes me feel during and after — strong, clear, reset. No distractions, just you and your body. I found it a few years ago and it’s been a constant ever since.
Where’s at the top of your travel wish list right now?
Anywhere warm with clear water and white sand. Something easy and relaxing. Bora Bora, Mexico… I’m not too fussy as long as it feels like a proper switch-off.
How do you keep your body moving in a way that feels realistic and sustainable?
Right now it’s very different to what I’m used to.
I’m quite limited, so I go to cardiac rehab a few times a week and focus on slowly rebuilding my strength. Everything is really guided — I’m listening to my nurses and physios and not pushing beyond where I should be.
It’s less about intensity and more about consistency and doing it safely.
What’s one non-negotiable that helps keep your mind or body well?
Protecting my energy. Being really mindful of what I say yes to, who I spend time with, and not overloading myself. It sounds simple, but it’s probably made the biggest difference to how I feel day to day.
When you think of “balance”, what does that really mean in your real, everyday life?
I don’t think balance is ever perfectly even. For me, it’s more about knowing what needs my attention in that moment and letting that be enough. Some days it’s rest, some days it’s work, some days it’s just getting through. It’s less about doing everything and more about not burning yourself out trying to.
What’s a truth about yourself that took you years to finally admit?
That I can’t do everything on my own. I’ve always been very independent. However, accepting that needing help isn’t a weakness — it’s actually what makes everything work.
When do you feel most like the truest version of you?
I feel like I’m always the truest version of myself. I don’t really know how to be anything else. I’ve never been good at pretending or trying to fit into something that doesn’t feel natural.
What’s a mistake you’re genuinely grateful you made?
I’ve made a lot of mistakes in different seasons of my life. I really believe everything happens for a reason — especially the people you meet. They teach you what you want, what you don’t, and shape you in ways you don’t realise at the time.
What part of yourself do you judge the most, and why do you think that is?
Probably myself as a mum.
There’s always that underlying doubt — am I doing enough, am I making the right choices?
I think because it matters so much, it’s the area where I’m hardest on myself.
Is there a version of yourself you’re trying to become — what does she look like?
I’m not actively trying to become a specific version of myself. I think you naturally evolve through what you go through — challenges, different phases, the people you meet. You learn, you shift, you grow. It’s less about becoming someone new and more about becoming more of who you already are.
What’s a small joy that’s getting you through this season of life?
Honestly, just being healthy and here. Everything else feels secondary to that right now.
Going through open-heart surgery is life-changing — what was the hardest moment for you, and what kept you going during that time?
Physically it was intense, but the hardest part was actually mental.
Sitting in rooms with multiple specialists and surgeons, having them explain everything that was happening to my body and what they needed to do… it didn’t feel real. There were moments I genuinely felt like I was watching it happen to someone else. What kept me going was my family.
That was it. Everything else just fell away.
How has your experience with surgery impacted your confidence and identity, both personally and as a model?
Honestly, I feel better than I have in a long time.
I was so unwell for so long without fully realising it, and now I have energy again — there’s a lightness that wasn’t there before.
In terms of appearance, the scars don’t really bother me. They’ll fade, and even if they don’t, they’re part of it. I don’t see them as something to hide.
As a mum, how did you navigate caring for Reeves while also going through recovery?
didn’t, really. Parenting took a back seat. My husband stepped in and did everything — he was both mum and dad for a long time. It wasn’t easy, but it was what we had to do.
Did your experience change the way you see success, beauty, or what really matters in life?
Completely.
When you’re in hospital being told you could lose your leg, your pregnancy, or your life, everything shifts.
Nothing external really matters in that moment. It all comes back to the people you love and being here.
What would you say to other young women or mums facing serious health challenges right now?
Trust yourself and advocate for yourself. If something feels even slightly off, don’t ignore it.
Push for answers, ask questions, get second opinions if you need to.
You know your body better than anyone.
How has it been living overseas while going through such a traumatic health experience?
It was hard. We didn’t have family around the corner to step in.
What inspired you to start Tini Togs, and how did your experience as a mum shape the vision for the business?
I had a busy baby, and changing him at the beach or pool was honestly a nightmare — half the time he just ended up naked because it was easier.
What do you prioritise when designing pieces for Tini Togs?
For me, it has to work in real life. If it’s hard to get on and off, uncomfortable, or impractical, it’s not worth it — no matter how good it looks. With Tini Togs, the starting point is always function. The full zip, the ease of changing, the fit — that all comes first. Then we layer in the aesthetic so it still feels elevated and considered. It’s about making something that actually helps parents, but still looks good.
